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November 29 Text SpamMy mother has recently taken to text messaging with me. This is good, as I am more likely to respond via text. We have historically communicated via phone. I just don't like talking on the phone too much, so I talk to her about twice a month. She rarely emails. When she does she forwards me some spam crap like "10 ways you know you are a Chicana" or "Jesus Loves Me" inspirational messages. And she'll do it in batches. One day I'll get 5 forwards...then she'll be silent for a couple of days, and then more forwards. She gets mad at me because I don't respond to her emails. She thinks forwarding constitutes "emailing". That is not emailing-you need to have some personal expression in an email in order for me to respond and consider it a legitimate correspondence. Today, I turn on my cell phone and see two texts from mom. That's cool. I love getting text messages. The first was a very nice "Luv U" message...a great way to start the day. The second text, and this just blew my mind...she sent me a text "forward". It was some kind of text she got, that she then proceeded to forward to me. I am so peeved. I feel like my personal space was invaded. I didn't even know there was such a thing as Text Message Spam. Grrr.....How do you tell your mother that she lacks cell phone and email etiquette?
Here is the exact body of the Text Message. Fwd:U like dumb is who person retarded another to it send now, this reading time ass sweet ur took you (read backwards).
Grrrrrr........... snow musings
November 22 Lil' sis is comin' to town!Today my lil' sister Natalie arrives for a holiday visit. I am really excited to have her come up as it has been about 3 years since she last visited Seattle. It is really nice to have family around during the holidays. I sometimes get jealous of my friends whose siblings live near them. I wish my sisters lived closer all the time. It is nice to have someone around who understands where you come from. Following Natalie's visit, Tenaya and her family will come to Seattle for Christmas and I am also super psyched about that.
I'm not exactly sure what we'll do with Nat during her stay, but hopefully she will enjoy herself. We're going to a nice dinner tonight. I'm taking her to a Turkey Day/stretching pilates class tomorrow morning, which she sounded particularly interested in, and of course we'll go to Dave and Lauren's for what will inevitably be a feast of epic proportions. We'll probably hit up a movie, maybe do some shopping, maybe walk around the park, and then before you know it, she will have to return home. It is pretty interesting having a sibling that is so much younger than you. In her eyes, I'm really only that big sister that lives far away. She was 2 when I went away to college. I'm looking forward to getting to know her better during this visit.
Of course, I've used Natalie's arrival as a deadline of sorts for getting things done around the house. We painted the living room and set up the new furniture last week. Yesterday I converted Tina's room into Natalie's bedroom. I was kind of sad about that. I liked having Tina live with us, she's a surrogate sister, and we left the room virtually untouched since she moved out. But it was time to move on, and so I made the bed with a nice, cozy, comforter and put up matching curtains. I put in a nightstand, a lamp, and a nightlight. The room looks pretty different, so I feel ok about calling it Natalie's room now. It looks like a legit room and not an empty place that once had Tina and all of her stuff. November 21 Things That Make Me Go "all Lennie"There are a few things in life that I see and all of a sudden I revert to the mentality of a 5 year old or someone with mental deficiencies. Roger calls it "going all Lennie." You know, like the guy from Of Mice and Men? It is the perfect description of my actions. My man is all literary and shit and remembers stuff he read in high school and college. His knowledge base can be simultaneously impresssive and a curse.
"Going all Lennie" started with cats several years back. Roger is allergic to cats. I like cats. Or maybe I like the notion of cats. I used to have a cat when I was a kid, so now that I can't have a cat I I have romanticized what it is like to have a kitty. Any time I see a cat that looks cuddly (i.e. our friends' cats-- notably Huxley, Zolie, or Nimbus) I have to desperately curb the desire to go all Lennie on the poor animal. Thankfully, those cats don't really like being around crowds, so I don't have to embarass myself around my friends.
When it happens, going all Lennie on cats consists of the following:
If it was truly "going all Lennie" I would have killed the kitties with my love and affection. Which I don't. I just want to pet them, and love them, and snuggle their soft bodies. I am especially fond of soft, fluffy, slightly tubby kitties. It isn't the same with Roo. I like to hug and pet her, but the uncontrollable urge to squeeze and hug are not the same. Small, fluffy yip yip dogs also fit the bill for Lennie type reactions but I don't have many friends with those types of dogs.
I also go all Lennie on blankets. I love blankets and yes, I like to hug them, esp when I am trying to get warm. It is so comforting to be warm and cozy under a good blankie. But I am particular on what type of blankets I like. I really like the mexico blankets (furry ones that Tina and Chloe refer to as "asian blankets."). Our Scarface throw (yes, it is a blanket with a picture of scarface on it) is a superb blanket for snuggling under while watching tv, and perfectly Gina sized. But, the best blankets, in my opinion, are cotton ones with the soft, satin-y edges on them. The good ones are becoming harder to find because now they use some kind of synthetic material for the edging. I was one of those kids who used to have a blankie. It was a twin sized blanket that I carried around with me when I was little and then I used it on my bed until I graduated from college. Yes, I still have the blanket. It is pretty much in threads. I put it away once Rog and I moved in together. The best part of the blankie was the softy part you could rub against your face. Ol' Blankie still has some of the soft parts. When I am feeling particularly depressed or sad, sometimes I rummage around in my jean drawer until I can find little ol' blankie. When I pull out the blanket, I hug it tightly and snuggle it, nuzzle my face in the remnants of the blanket edges ,and then I put it back in its drawer. It sounds gross, but it is so comforting, and I can squeeze it as hard as I want to without remorse. I still really love the blanket and try not to think about how it just sits all cold and lonely in my jean drawer. Now that it is winter, we have a similar type of cotton blanket under our comforter. Sometimes in the morning I like to snooze and make the softy edges of the blanket brush up against my face until it is time to get out of bed.
Most recently, I've come to discover that I am reaching near Lennie proportions with chubby babies. It started with my little niece, Sophia. New babies smell so good and I love baby fingers and feet and their tiny articles of clothing. And babies can't really fight back while you nuzzle or hug them, they seem to like it if you are nice and gentle about it. Last weekend, we saw Baby Ava Smith and she is just too cute for words. Fits the bill for chubby, cute, smiley, and hugable.
Um, I just re-read this blog entry and realized that I have it bad for soft, chubby, nice smelling things like babies. What does this say about me? Tick, Tock goes the Biological Clock... November 15 So SeattleOn the drive into work this morning I heard a PSA on KEXP regarding global warming. Maybe some of you have heard these PSAs. This particular announcement advocated ways in which you could conserve energy and water such as turning down the temperature on your water heater, taking shorter showers, or showering with a buddy. Showering with a buddy! I don't know why but that just made my morning. So typically Seattle to have a PSA which suggests this approach as one of many methods to conserve. November 13 What were you doing 10 years ago?Last week Roger and I got flyers in the mail for our Stanford 10-year reunion. I know...10 years. I guess it kind of makes me feel old, but not too bad. I am more shocked at how 10 years just flew by. The flyer was typical Stanford--happy smiley people in logo sweatshirts hugging, hanging out in the quad, looking intellectual, you know, the standard "we're-the-west-coast-ivy-league-look-at-how-smart-and-happy-we-are-don't-you-wish-you-were-us" kind of pictures. Don't get me wrong, I loved my college experience, but sometimes the promotional material is just a little too much for me to swallow. I look at these flyers and all I think is "Thank God I found Terra". Co-op life totally made my college experience.
But of course, looking at the flyers made me feel all nostalgic for my college experience. Cause it was awesome. I carefully inspected the photographs for images of campus life. I sighed thinking about how awesome it was to suntan in one of the many grassy areas around the campus, attempting to do my required reading. I definitely want to go to the 10-year reunion, but only if we can convince all of our friends to go because then it would be a raucous good time. I don't really care to do any of the institutionally planned events....but they did offer up something kind of interesting... You can sign up to plan your own "mini-reunion" where you provide a list of names of students and the school helps you to contact them and plan a mini event all of your own. I am wondering if I should try to spearhead something, or if we should totally wing it. I am curious what kind of free things and support we'd get if we went through official Stanford channels, but I am also suspicious of some kind of subversive element to planning a get-together under the auspices of the Stanford Reunion Committee. Also, planning a c/o '97 Terra event through the official Stanford channels seems just way too weird. Part of me thinks I want to avoid any institutional programming and focus instead convincing friends to come out. I am hoping all of my frosh dorm crew will show up, and of course as many of the Terra crew as possible.
Man, here I sit at work planning out my work program for the week and I am daydreaming about what I was doing 10 years ago. About this time 10 years ago: I was a senior in college, an RA at Terra, dating Roger for 9 months and about to go to Reno with him for Thanksgiving, taking Geology and Architecture classes, hanging out with peeps on the couches out in front of Terra, making cholesterol sandwiches and stoner cheesecakes at midnight, and driving to Carls Jr. with Vish and Rog b/c we couldn't stand another night of polenta. You know, good times. I never would have guessed that Roger and I would be married, living in Seattle, and that I'd be a consultant at an engineering firm. I reflect fondly on my college days, so I am thinking that we will definitely try to go to the 10-year reunion. It could be a good time. Now all I have to do is convince everyone else that it is a good idea. It seems plausible. At the very least, we can all plan a vacation to SF around the same time and visit The Bear. November 10 Viva Piñata!Roger came home last night with the bestest swag ever...
I don't normally hype XBox games...but this one is so cool. I mean, how can you go wrong with a game about gardening and piñatas? These happen to be two things I love! This game is targeted to kids but is right up my alley. It takes the cuteness and draw of Pokemon (i.e. the collection and evolution of animals) and adds a twist. You gotta cultivate the land to attract piñatas, make homes for them, attract piñatas to keep your existing piñatas happy so they will mate, and of course protect your piñatas. You have gardening tools like a watering can and shovel, and a garden journal to document your land and piñata inventory. I have been thinking about this game all morning long. It is the perfect game for me, no doubt soon to become an addiction.
I can't wait to get home and make my piñatas "romance" so I will have more piñatas. You can even name your piñatas! I know what I am doing with my down time this weekend.... November 09 Why Do I Even Bother?!?Every year as the rainy season begins, I have aspirations to find a "stylish" raincoat. I live in Seattle for goodness sakes. This means I wear a raincoat often. I hate to be 1) cold and 2) wet, so a raincoat comes in pretty handy. Also, I quickly learned that locals do not use umbrellas and if you use one, people look askance at you. I don't use an umbrella and in fact do not even know if I own one. When I say "stylish" I mean fashionable, form fitting, water repellant, looks good with work clothes or when going out, and not dumpy. Must have a hood.
I usually start my quest by checking Macy's and Nordies and Nordies Rack (capitalizing on back to school, veterans day or anniversary sales). I walk into the boutique shops and search around. I typically have bad luck buying jackets online b/c you never know how my shoulders will fit in the cut. So I have to try on the coats when I shop. And what do I find every single year? One of the following:
I have lots of jackets and coats. But not all are appropriate for the rain. There are many stylish coats and jackets available out there, just a much smaller proportion that are water repellant. You would think that raincoat fashion has advanced in the Pacific Northwest. My unscientific survey of local stores reveals that, in fact, we are eons behind in raincoat fashion. I should write up a business plan for fashionable raincoat company. I'd make a killing in Seattle because there ain't shit around here that is appealing.
By the end of a several month search I end up either 1) settling for a sale jacket (because I feel like I need a new coat and it is cheap.. but because I never really loved the jacket I don't wear it) or 2) getting pissed off and not buying anything. I shouldn't complain. I have a lot of jackets that do the job...but they just don't satisfy my vision. I ended up buying a jacket today that I feel ok about. It was on sale. It is water repellent coat with a hood. It is silver. The hood has some faux fur on it, which I'm not 100% feeling, but I liked the way the coat felt and it fit and was not dumpy, so I bought it. We'll see how I feel...I may sit on the purchase for a few days and then return it. I recently pulled an old raincoat out of the closet. I bought it a couple of years ago. I've ressurected the coat because it is the best option I have right now. It is a black raincoat with white piping that I purchased at Nordstrom Rack. It was really cheap. I thought it looked super cool. Then I got home with it and decided it wasn't right. It was too flashy. I only spent $20 on it, so I promptly hung it in the closet and forgot about it. I found the coat recently and have decided that it actually isn't that bad of a raincoat, esp when compared to dumpy ol' lil' red riding hood coat and green NorthFace jacket I've been wearing. So we'll see. I am constantly on the quest for "stylish" raincoat, so if you see something while shopping, hook me up with the info! November 07 I got exit polled today!I voted this afternoon. Feeling pretty pleased with myself for doing my civic duty. Normally I absentee ballot, but since I neglected to change my address and none of that stuff gets forwarded, I had to go to the polling station back in the old 'hood.
There is something very satisfying about going to the polling station. I think I've been missing out on something by absentee voting. Since moving to WA I have only voted at the polling station twice including today. The reason why I opted to become an absentee voter was so that I would be sure to vote. As an absentee voter I cannot make any excuses about not voting. I can't blame my work or traffic or meetings for not voting. The other rationale-- theoretically I can research the issues at my own leisure before casting my vote. But the process is not nearly as satisfying as going to the polling station in person. There is all this civic energy. There is a buzz about the room. I like standing in the plastic cubicle voting booths, with its fluorescent light guiding me along the ballot issues. I like how the little booth shakes slightly while I vigorously, yet completely, fill in the ovals with my black ink pen. I like talking to the elderly volunteers, even though it takes them forever to find my name, and I always thank them for giving their time to the democratic process. It is a very social and civic experience. It makes me proud to be an American...and I find so few instances where that is the case these days.
Luckily they had the change of address forms at the polling station, so I was able to update all the pertinent information in one convenient stop. The best part of the experience? As I was leaving I was asked if I had time to conduct an exit poll. Cool! I didn't want to seem too excited to do the exit poll, but I was really psyched. I had a total geek reaction. I have always wondered about exit polls. Who gets polled? What is the method of polling? How do they get these election results so quickly? etc. I had always assumed an exit poll was done verbally--like someone accosts you on the way out of the polling station and asks you a couple of questions. I guess that doesn't make a whole lot of sense, but it is what I had pictured in my head. Instead, the exit poller was a young man from UW whose quota was reached after I completed the poll. The exit poll consisted of a 40+ question survey form. The exit poll asked questions about how I voted, whether I was aware of current issues, my perspective on particular issues (like immigration), and then the demographic profile. It ended up being pretty neat. And now when I hear the preliminary election results on the commute home, I can believe that my exit poll contributed to the results that will be cited!
After today, I guess I'm kind of sad that King County has decided to move forward with an all-mail election... I guess because I like the option of stopping in to vote if I need or want to. And this sentimental response is in contrast to my absentee voter status. I guess I just had a really positive voting experience today and I'm feeling nostalgic. And, the all-mail voting likely won't happen for another couple of years anyway, so I might as well hit the polling stations until it does happen. November 01 Did She Say Chocolate Shortcake?Since Roger and I moved to Seattle, we have lived in places where the density of trick or treaters on Halloween is low to non-existent. This is what happens when you live in Capitol Hill and the Central District, I suppose. Not too many kids around or else we had a poor location for safe trick or treating. People take their kids to malls or rich neighborhoods. At the old house we tried to pass out candy only a few times. The few times we did, no kids showed. The old house did not have a lot of street friendliness, so I assumed that was part of the problem. The one time we didn't pass out candy, some kids showed up and we felt like crap such that we ended up turning off all lights in the house and hunkering down in the basement so we wouldn't have to confront our guilt. We always thought part of the problem was that we didn't get home early enough. Parents make their kids trick or treat a lot earlier these days it seems, and so we thought that we just missed the boat with trick of treaters. Given that context, we discussed that of all the places we have lived, this might be the best opportunity to see the kids in their cutie costumes. To this day, I still remember Baby Steve Young from way back in the day when we lived in the Albany House. As Beth put it, there is something about babies and dogs in costumes that is just too much to handle. Way too cute and adorable and hilarious. Having no kids of our own, I wanted to see the current trends in kiddie costumes. We had already tortured Roo earlier this week by forcing her into a Batman costume we found at the Goodwill. Any time I look at the photos I snicker and giggle to myself. Our new neighborhood is quite kid friendly with lots of kids around playing in the street and stuff, so we were both quite hopeful that we'd have lots of kids cruise by the house. We went out and each picked out the 'cool' candy we thought we'd like if we were trick or treating. I got the Willie Wonka/Sweet Tart mix pack, Twix/snickers/starburst mix bag, and Reese's peanut butter cups. Roger picked out kit kats and nestle crunch candies. We were set! We were gonna be the cool house where the good candy comes from. We talked about how much fun it was to be a kid during Halloween. The excitement of trick or treating and all the stupid stuff you do as a kid. Then the excitement of coming home and sorting all the candy into piles before gorging yourself. We were perhaps a little too excited to see what would happen in the neighborhood this year. I am convinced that the quantity of trick or treaters is a direct reflection of perception of safety, kid friendly neighborhood and pedestrian safety. That means good things for the future if we have little Roginas. The bottom line--there was a lot of Halloween trick or treating hype in our house leading up to the big day. Then over the course of the week we ate most of the chocolate candies while vegging out in front of the TV, and at the last minute we had to put aside the Willie Wonka mix pack of candies so that we'd be sure to have candy to give away. Yesterday I wanted to ensure that I did not miss one single kid, so I took off from work at 3:30 to go home and make the house trick or treater friendly. I put out our carved pumpkins and lit the candles. I strung some orange lights at the base of the steps. I turned on the porch light and made sure the rooms facing the street were adequately lit. Then I put the dog in the basement to make it easier to open up the door and pass out candy. I did all this prep before 4:30. By 5 pm it was dark and I started to bake some cookies to pass the time while I waited for Roger to come home and for the kids to arrive. I listened carefully for the sounds of children yelling trick or treat. I kept looking out the windows to see if I saw any pedestrians on the street. Nothing. By 5;30 I was starting to get depressed about the fact that no kids had come by. How could we be so wrong? Roger and I were convinced that we live in a trick or treat kind of neighborhood. By 6 pm I was bemoaning the state of the world. What have we come to that kids aren't allowed to trick or treat anymore? Why isn’t Seward Park a good neighborhood for trick or treaters? There are tons of kids around! I was feeling quite distraught by the time the door bell rang for the first time. I answered the door to find our very first trick or treater--a toddler dressed as a Lion and his parents who were also in costume. So cute. It was early but he had already taken off his mane. I made him put the mane back on so I could see the complete costume. I became hopeful. I could hear kids voices out on the street. Perhaps the time had arrived for trick or treaters! I was overly ebullient with the first set of kids. I complimented costumes and handed out big handfuls of candy. I even thanked the first couple of groups for coming by. I THANKED them. Wow, I must have seemed like a desperate stalker. With each ring of the doorbell my spirits rose. By the time Roger got home I was near giddy. They came in waves, but by 7:30 we had at least 30-40 kids. Roger, who sadly had to work late, only caught a few of the kids after he got home. The one downside is that is was so cold last night that many of the kids had coats on over their costumes. I felt weird asking, but I made the kids tell me what they were if their costumes were obscured. Our favorite includes the sisters who replied “I’m a drama queen” and “ muffle muffle Shortcake.” Roger is convinced she said “Chocolate Shortcake.” Hilarious. Some kids even volunteered to show me their costumes after I asked. One of the cutest was a little Scarlett O’Hara. She was maybe 6 years old. We had plans to go out to dinner with friends and needed to leave the 'hood. I felt guilty and so did Roger, so we just put out a bowl of the remaining candy for whoever came by. Just as we were leaving, the wave of high school aged kids were coming out. We passed two large groups of teens as we pulled away from the curb. Probably the first teen that encountered our bowl just dumped it into their sack, but who knows. I’d like to believe they were honest and leave it at that. Someone I work with said 7:30-8:30 is generally the peak hour for trick or treating, but we missed that. I was kind of sad to miss the kids, but I really wanted to eat some lobster, so my hunger won over the desire to see the kids. Next year, I'm gonna take it to the next level. Maybe I will wear a scary costume. Maybe I put out more decorations. Maybe I'll make a small haunted Halloween scene in the front yard like John and Yaya used to do when I was growing up. Now that we have verified that our 'hood is in fact a good trick or treating neighborhood, maybe we'll throw a little get together so everyone else can see the cutie costumes. I was pleased with the outcome. And I’m glad that Halloween still brings out the kids-at heart in the Kurtz household. |
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